small successes continue!

Hi all,

I am trying my best to be better at updating this blog, but I admit I am struggling! Life has become so "normal" here that I struggle to figure out how to communicate it back to you folk.

Another of my struggles in communication is maintaining the privacy and confidentiality of the women in the program. So, I'll do my best to let you know what's happening, but please forgive me for my inability to go into a great deal of detail. If you would like to hear more and are wanting to be a prayer supporter, please feel free to contact me and I am happy to provide you with that in a less public forum.

As I mentioned to you, we recently hired a counsellor. And let me tell you - I think she is the absolute best! Her English is pretty good, but she mostly speaks in Kinyarwanda so I don't always know what she's saying, but there is something about the vibe she gives off that just gives me such comfort. She is an older woman which I think is beautiful because she can be a sort of maternal, caring figure for the women. She tells me how much she loves being a counsellor, and I love having her. She has been working with the women on some basics and foundations for counseling, as counseling doesn't really exist in Rwandan culture much. As they continue to get comfortable and get to know each other, she will eventually transition to doing some one-on-one counseling.

Now, as I mentioned, counseling is not usually a part of Rwandan culture, however we are seeing the women really responding to the group sessions. We know that trust is being built we are beginning to hear some more about the difficulty of the women's lives. As heart breaking as it has been to hear, it is a sign that we are creating a safe space where they feel they can share. They settle conflicts and they encourage one another. I am loving the way they are banding together as a group of friends and colleagues. If you have committed to praying for this work, please keep one girl in particular in your prayers at the moment who I will call "L". Her situation has shown me my own limitations in that I do not know the laws and regulations here in Rwanda well, but that has been a great opportunity for our social workers and peer support worker to do research and take it as a learning opportunity, while also working for the best outcome for "L".


And now: I was sent some questions as suggestions for what to include in this blog, so I figured maybe I could take one or two each post to answer. The first question is:

"What are some of the similarities between African, Australian, and American daily life?"

So, Kigali is a city - with traffic, restaurants, and even some skyscrapers (taller than any in Gosford probably!) so, connectivity to the world is the same - I have WiFi at work and at home, and I can use my iPhone out and about.
A similarity to New York/American life is something called "hellofood" which is like Seamless (for you New Yorkers) - it's a food delivery service that delivers for a lot of the restaurants in town for just 1000 Rwandan francs (about $2 AUD/$1.40 USD) we can have anything from chips and hamburgers, pizza, or Mexican burritos delivered to our home by a guy on a motorcycle.
Social life is generally the same - we get together to watch movies, play board games, go to concerts (I went to an outdoor hip hop concert on Thursday night which was great fun!), and go out for meals.

Thank you, as always, for reading. Feel free to contact me with questions or comments, and if you are interested in being part of a closer-knit prayer team where I can share a little more detail, please contact me.

& please consider giving to us here or here.

Much love.

Bronte. 

work so far

Hi all,

I am 3 weeks + 1 day into my time here in Rwanda and I think I probably owe you all a bit of an update about the whole reason why I even came here in the first place! It's taken a little bit of time to get into a routine and figure out what it's all going to look like, but today after a staff meeting I am feeling that I am in a good place to explain it to you :)

So, I'm assuming you all know about the work I am doing here (if not, please read here or here or ask me!)

The program has now been running for close to 2 months and we have seen some encouraging results. As I wrote about briefly in my previous post, the women have a very strong work ethic. This is a positive thing, but also something we need to manage as sometimes they would prefer to work than to participate in the other programs we have for them (counseling, Bible study, health education, etc).

To explain to you a little bit more about my role in this big beautiful project: I am working in a team of about 9 or so Rwandan women. We have a program coordinator, a business coach/director, a financial/administrator, a counsellor, two social workers, a peer support person, and two people working on the creative/jewellery side of things. I have been able to participate in staff meetings where we discuss the ins and outs of running this program, which I have really been enjoying. We all bounce ideas off each other and are able to come up with solutions that we think will produce the best results for the women. My specific responsibility, though, is to work with the social workers. Their role is to be a point person for the women outside of our work space by completing home visits. We have found that there are things the women will tell to the social workers in a one-on-one private setting that they would not otherwise share in a group setting. The social workers will then feedback to the rest of the team at our weekly staff meetings so that we can address any issues that may be occurring. I am not able to participate in this myself as I do not speak the local language (Kinyarwanda), so I will be overseeing the work that the social workers do and training them to use the educational knowledge that they have.

We are already beginning to see the trust that has been built between the women and all of us involved, but there is still progress to be made in those relationships, and also in the relationships between the women. If you are someone who likes to pray, you could pray for continued trust to be built, and also for the women to bond and grow close to one another so that they can also be a support to one another.

I'll leave it at that for now - there is so much more that I could share, and I will do so as the time goes on :)

As always, please feel free to contact me with any questions you may have.

And if you have not already, please consider donating to our program here or here - it is greatly, greatly appreciated.

THANK YOU!

Bronte

small victories!

Our first batch of jewellery is on it's way to America! The women have been learning so quickly and seeming to have fun making the jewellery. They come early and stay late; I am loving their strong work ethic (and their smiles and giggles even though I don't know what they're laughing about due to the language barrier!) We have already found out that the women are working less at night as their income begins to be replaced by the work they do with us. I am feeling encouraged by this victory! Please continue to pray and check out www.youcaring.com/bronte-hughes-400863 if you haven't already - the more money I raise, the more money can be poured back into this program! 

Thank you!

one week in Kigali!

I have been in Rwanda for one week and 3 hours. So I felt I owed you all an update.

Things here are going well (for those who read my blog last time around you will know the first few days/weeks were brutal, so this is BIG!) Coming back to a place I am familiar with, and being surrounded by familiar faces makes a huge difference.

I figured I would wait a little longer to tell you the details of my work, as it is still all unfolding a bit. Instead, I thought I would try to answer the "What is it like there?" question that I have been asked quite a bit. It is impossible to completely and accurately describe a place without you being able to see it and experience it yourself, but I will try!

Kigali is a juxtaposition of both modern day luxury and the more "simple" things in life. There are restaurants, hotels, spas/salons, a golf course, huge mansions, and expensive cars. But at the same time, our power goes out usually once per day, our water sometimes stops running, and many of the roads are red clay/dirt. There are also families who live in homes which are made of mud bricks and do not have running water. There is so much contrast.

Kigali is quite safe, however there are issues with theft. Most homes are surrounded by walls with a locked gate at the front, some with guards employed to keep the property protected. We have a guard at our home who is a lovely man and also helps out around the property doing maintenance.

We also employ a lovely lady who helps to take care of our home a few days a week with cleaning and some cooking. This is a strange concept to those of us who grew up in the West, but in Rwanda it is expected that those who have the means to do so, hire domestic workers in their home as a way to create jobs and income for people.

In terms of food, we have access to most things. There are many restaurants here in Kigali, as well as a market and supermarkets. We eat well and so I am grateful for the exercise class my friend runs..

For transportation, sometimes we drive in my housemates car (I even had a turn of driving today and didn't get in a crash so yay!). Traffic in Kigali is crazy and road rules are "loose", shall we say. If not driving, I take a moto - which is when you flag down a guy on a motorbike and hop on the back and pay him to take you to where you need to go. It is good fun :)

That's about all I can think of right now, but PLEASE feel free to ask questions and give me suggestions on what you might like to see on this blog. Last time around I feel that maybe I used it more for my own coping mechanism, but this time I feel like it will be used more to communicate with all of you lovely supporters and friends - so please be in touch with me about what you would like to read!

Thanks!

Bronte